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  • The Paradox of Choice (short post)

    The Paradox of Choice (short post)

    “Indecision is the enemy of progress. Not saying ‘yes’ to one possibility is saying ‘no’ to them all.”

    – Micheal Haggstrom

    Have you heard of the Paradox of Choice? American Psychologist, Barry Schwartz (author of Why Less is More), says that although autonomy and freedom of choice is critical to our well-being, too many choices has a negative effect on us. Schwartz argues that the sheer number of choices we have to make in developed Western societies can lead to stress and even paralysis (inaction). Rather than choose “wrong” we don’t choose anything at all, because we’re afraid of missing out on a better experience.

    We have way more options for material goods than ever before in history, we have unlimited access to information via the internet, we have so many more career and lifestyle options as well… I think the Paradox of Choice is a great thing to keep in mind to make sure we don’t fall victim to our own inaction. Maybe the solution is to get clear on our goals and priorities in life, to make it easier for us to make decisions and take action without dwelling on the what-ifs or fear of missing out.

  • Give up Fighting for Respect (short post)

    Give up Fighting for Respect (short post)

    You never have to try to convince others to respect you when you stop living to keep everyone else happy and live life for you.

    If you’re feeling like you have to try to “make” others respect you, that’s a losing battle. Figure out who you want to be and be true to that person to the best of your abilities. People around you will either respect you, or they won’t. And those who respect you will be respecting the real you if you’re being genuine and true to yourself in your actions. They’ll be people you want in your life. Those who don’t respect you will most likely be people you don’t want in your life anyway.

    Helping others, being compassionate, and lifting up those around us are great qualities in a person. But you don’t want to live solely for making others happy while neglecting yourself. Especially if it conflicts with being true to yourself.

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