Tag: spiritual

  • Function From Love and Watch Life Love You Back

    Function From Love and Watch Life Love You Back

    Have you ever noticed when something really good happens to you or you’re in a really good mood, other things in your life seems to effortlessly fall into place? People say and do things and events play out in ways that boost you up even more? Conversely, have you noticed that when you’re in a bad mood or one unpleasantly jarring thing happens, other things in your life begin to spiral downward as well? 

    That seems to be the case more often than not, in my experience. I don’t believe it’s a coincidence and here’s why:  

    Everything is energy 

    “Concerning matter, we have been all wrong. What we have called matter is energy, whose vibration has been so lowered as to be perceptible to the senses. There is no matter.”  


    — Albert Einstein 

    Einstein believed everything is energy. In addition, he’s saying there are different frequency levels things vibrate at (think radio waves). Things we perceive as physical are vibrating at a lower frequency; things we can’t perceive at a higher one. Since humans are a part of the universe, that means we too are made up of energy. I believe we are vibrating at different frequency levels as well, depending on our level of consciousness (which can change). 

    This explains why some people ‘just click’ when they first meet, why some close relationships seem to grow apart for no reason, why we enjoy a particular kind of music (different music = different vibration frequency), why that can change depending on our mood, why some people can sense energies that others can’t, and a whole lot more. 

    Our energy affects our environment and other people. 

    It seems the whole universe is one big cosmic energy interaction that has a kind of order and purpose that we could study for a lifetime and still not completely wrap our heads around. I’ve heard the idea that our energy affects everything else from several other sources as well, and it would make sense if everything is connected. 

    Scientific sources have also stated that we can affect things consciously. One example is Dr. Masaru Emoto, author of New York Times best seller The Hidden Messages in Water, who studied the effects of human intention on water crystals. He claimed that positive thought, prayer, music, and written words created symmetrical, aesthetically pleasing crystals when the water was frozen, and negative words and thoughts created distorted, ugly crystals.  

    We are not a victim of our life; we are the creator of it. 

    The Celestine Prophecy, a spiritual adventure story (one of my all-time favorite spiritual growth books which I reference in other articles), talks about this concept as well. 

    “…the basic stuff of the universe, at its core, is looking like a kind of pure energy that is malleable to human intention and expectation in a way that defies our old mechanistic model of the universe–as though our expectation itself causes our energy to flow out into the world and affect other energy systems.”  


    — James Redfield, The Celestine Prophecy 

    You may have heard of the law of attraction: the idea that we can consciously create our reality from our intentions and beliefs. Whatever level of vibration we are functioning from will attract things in life to us which are of the same vibration. I think the law of attraction is misunderstood and over-simplified sometimes, but as long as we focus on raising our energy level with honest and pure intentions, I believe it will benefit us and everyone around us. 

    But there’s another more physical way we create our reality I don’t think is often talked about. We make thousands of decisions every day on how we do everything: our word choice and tone of voice we use while speaking to others, how we drive, how we move and carry ourselves, whether or not we decide to say hi to our neighbor, whether or not we run that errand, whether or not we eat that cookie, and on and on. (This is my husband’s theory, and it’s pretty awesome.) 

    Whatever our strongest, most persistent beliefs are about ourselves and the world, will literally create that reality for us through our actions.  

    For a lot of people, these daily behaviors are mostly unconscious; not true for people who have developed self-awareness. But all of these actions are a reflection of our state of mind and vibration level. If we want to change it we can work from the outside in – by conducting ourselves consciously in the way we would if we were at the level we wanted to be. 

    How do we raise our energy level? 

    To raise our energy to the level where life loves us back, I believe the answer is by getting into a state of consciousness where love, appreciation, joy, or faith fills us up and leaves no room for the fear and insecurity of the mind.

    Here are 11 simple strategies to get you started: 

    1. Meditate. People have been meditating for centuries. There are many different ways to do it, but the purpose is always to bring your awareness out of your head and realign with your true self. 
    2. Recall a memory that evokes an emotion like love, safety, or gratitude, or use your imagination to generate the feeling.
    3. Go somewhere with beauty, like nature, to bring your awareness to the present and good emotions.
    4. Focus on your breathing. It can calm your mind and bring you back to the present.
    5. Engage in thought-provoking/inspiring conversation with someone. 
    6. Exercise. 
    7. Do something to make someone else smile.
    8. Let go of your worries and trust that everything will work out. Trust in whatever you trust in, that everything will be okay (I know, it’s harder than it sounds). Everything is as it’s meant to be. 
    9. Spend time with your favorite pets (animals naturally vibrate at a higher frequency than most humans). 
    10. Do something you love to do. 
    11. If you have nagging thoughts about an unresolved issue that are making it hard to be present, do one thing toward resolving it. 

    If you’re having trouble raising your energy level due to stubborn, dis-empowering and dejecting belief systems, try this. I say this in almost every one of my articles: You have to become aware of the thing you want to change before you can change it. Practice observing your thoughts, emotions, what you say when talking to others, and how you behave. Once you’ve gotten insight into your belief systems, question the belief’s validity. Is (this) belief I have about (that) even true? 

    “Questioning illusions is the first step in undoing them.” 

    – A Course in Miracles

    Once you start consciously being able to raise your energy level you may find more people attracted to you, drawn like moths to a light. (If you have an issue with that you can set boundaries. You’re in charge of your life.) People will sense your change on an intuitive level and want to be around you more. They will also be lifted by your energy. They will feel happier, more inspired, think clearer, and be more creative. You’ll naturally bring out the best in others while you bring out the best in yourself – a win-win! 

    Summary 

    Everything in the universe is energy, and vibrating at different frequency levels, including us. Everything is connected. Not only does our energy affect everything else but we can consciously put our intentions out into the world and life will reflect them back to us. Another underrated way we create our reality is by every action we take and every word we say. How we conduct ourselves is a reflection of our state of mind/frequency level, and if we want to change that we can conduct ourselves consciously. When we raise our energy level we bring out the best in ourselves, in everyone around us, and we begin to see that life is happening for us, not against us.

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  • This Is Why We Fight: A Spiritual Explanation of All Human Conflict

    This Is Why We Fight: A Spiritual Explanation of All Human Conflict

    by Mandie

    Do you ever feel like what you are fighting about with someone isn’t really what you’re fighting about? The Celestine Prophecy, a book about spiritual awakening and conscious evolution (and one of my all-time favorites), explains what’s really going on in conflicts from a spiritual perspective in one of the chapters.  

    “…we humans seek to outwit and control each other not just because of some tangible goal in the outside world that we’re trying to achieve, but because of a lift we get psychologically. This is the reason we see so many irrational conflicts in the world both at the individual level and the level of nations.”

    — James Redfield, The Celestine Prophecy

    The book describes a set of different behavior methods humans use to get energy from each other, which the author refers to as Control Dramas. The word drama means the particular behavior patterns we act out, like scenes in a movie or a play, over and over throughout our lives.  

    The book explains how energy makes up the entire universe, including ourselves. And scientists such as Einstein have proved it. This energy is referred to by many different names, including God, Spirit, Love, Source, or universal energy.  

    At birth, this energy flows through and within us. We are connected with everything. But when we grow up, we develop judgments, fears, and doubts, and more and more we find ourselves feeling cut us off – desperate to feel that blissful connection again. We are not truly disconnected, we only feel that we are because of the limiting, fear-based belief systems we’ve unconsciously adopted. 

    In our attempts to feel better, we try to get other people to give us their energy. When we make someone else pay attention to us, energy (literally) streams from them to us. We mistakenly believe that getting energy from others is the only way we can get it. We don’t realize we can get it ourselves much less how.  

    It’s easy to see dramas acted out in close relationships such as parent-child and between lovers. One drama triggers the other’s drama, and thus the tug-of-war for energy ensues. Relationships running on control-drama-power most of the time are exhausting and difficult to sustain. 

    “…Everyone manipulates for energy either aggressively, directly forcing people to pay attention to them, or passively, playing on people’s sympathy or curiosity to gain attention.”  

    Here are the four different types of control dramas. The book classifies them into passive dramas and aggressive dramas. Here they range from the most passive (The Poor Me) to the most aggressive (The Intimidator): 

    The Passive Control Dramas 

    1. Poor Me 

    Those who use the Poor Me drama get your energy by attempting to make you feel bad for them, or feel guilty, so that you will do what they want.  

    2. Aloof 

    Those who use the Aloof drama get your energy by closing up and going into their shells, so that you have to poke, prod, and question to get them to talk. 

    The Aggressive Control Dramas 

    3. Interrogator  

    Interrogators get energy and take control by questioning and judging. They make you feel defensive and like you owe them a good explanation for everything they ask about. They question and judge you for even seeming insignificant things. 

    4. Intimidator 

    Intimidators get energy and take control by use of fear. They may threaten you with anything from bodily harm, to the loss of their friendship, to “or else.” 

    Warning 

    You’ll easily see what dramas those closest to you use, but the biggest pitfall is only seeing dramas in others and not in yourself. It takes self-awareness, and frankly more balls, to admit to your own drama, but this is where real growth happens. I think the second biggest pitfall is always blaming others for causing your control drama. It doesn’t matter who triggered who! This thinking is childish and bad for your relationship’s health. What’s the best thing you can do? Focus on how to stop the cycle, not whose fault it is.  

    You probably know your close friends’ and family members’ control dramas at this point. But do you know yours? 

    What’s My Drama? 

    First, look to your childhood. 

    According to The Celestine Prophecy, we developed our main control drama in childhood to counter the control dramas our parents or guardians used. The behavior patterns became habit, and even after we grew up and left home, we continued to use the same control dramas in all our other relationships. Most of us use one main drama, but we may switch between others depending on our situation and/or who we’re interacting with. Our main drama is whichever one seemed to work best for us on our family members.  

    Which Control Drama Creates Which 

    An Interrogator creates an Aloof  

    An Aloof creates an interrogator 

    An Intimidator creates a Poor Me, 

    and if that doesn’t work, an Intimidator creates another Intimidator 

    How Does This Work? 

    Ask yourself, for example: Did your dad often seem critical, like you couldn’t do anything right? Did he ask you lots of questions then find something wrong with your answers? If so, his main drama was an interrogator. You likely became aloof – not wanting to divulge too much information to spare yourself from criticism. 

    Did you dad seem distant? Closed up like a clam? Was it a rare treat to hear a story from his past, or offer up any ideas or opinions? If so, his main drama was aloof, and you likely felt you had to poke and pry to get him to open up and give you attention – becoming an interrogator yourself. 

    Did your mom often complain about what wasn’t going well in her life? Did she often make you feel guilty for the problems you were causing her with your messiness, noisiness, or forgetfulness? If so, her main drama was a poor me.  

    Did your mom often yell and threaten you? Did you feel nervous around her? Did you fear for your safety? If so, her main drama was an intimidator. To get the energy to come back your way, you acted out the Poor Me. If that went unnoticed by her then you became an intimidator as well. 

    How to Stop a Control Drama Energy Battle 

    1. Don’t participate 

    A control drama energy battle can only continue if both parties are participating. If one person doesn’t fall into the corresponding drama when the other person acts out theirs, the cycle cannot continue. If you can notice when your control drama is taking over, jump on that opportunity to direct your behavior toward a more productive route. Or, you may be aware of the dramas of those closest to you. When you notice them falling into it, you’ll be prepared for yours to kick in and you can put a stop to it. 

    2. Name the drama 

    Another way to stop an energy battle is to name the drama that’s being used on you. This works because the dramas operate on a subconscious level, so if you bring them up to the surface of consciousness they cease to work. 

    For example, when someone uses the Intimidator and threatens you, you might try saying, “What are you angry about?” If someone plays Aloof, you might try saying, “Why are you being so vague?” If they play a Poor Me, you might say, “Why do you feel the need to make me feel bad for you?” 

    Further Reading

    If you’d like to know how to increase your energy level so that you’re less inclined to participate in control dramas, click here!

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